I’m through with crushes! It’s #LetsTalkTuesday so let’s talk about how crushes can be unhealthy!!
I agree with this 100%. Unfortunately, sometimes the recipients of attraction can’t or won’t be as clear as “yes” or “no.” Sometimes because of their own fucked up issues, they will string others along, leaving the crush-er to wonder MAYBE “yes” or MAYBE “no.” And sometimes it’s hard to see that’s what’s happening until there’s already been a lot of pain and suffering.
But when it comes down to it, yes. Everyone deserves someone who will give them the love and happiness they deserve, not just pain and longing. We have to be willing to take a chance in order to find it.
Very true! There are people who will mess with you or don’t know what they want, but in those cases, I’ve learned the hard way, it’s time to move on as well.